Messed up life..

Marsbar于2006-11-28写道:



Light, what are you working on everyday, I am curious what kept you so busy.



biochemistry, chemistry, maths, cooking, meals, kitchen parties.. etc..

(SO LONG NO WATER)

that’s quite impressive that you did so much self studies on your own.

Marsbar于2006-11-28写道:



that’s quite impressive that you did so much self studies on your own.



I have too because everyone else around me is working crazily hard

lightningraider于2006-11-28写道:





in that case expand your cirlce of life so you find more people who may be single so have time to spend with you or find a bf thru the expansion of your circle, it would require effort.



i dunno how...seriously..im too serious abt all ma frdz now, and i dunno how 2 seek for new ones..

bf? na... i am so afraid of messing up a relationship..and i can't imagine being wif somebody..

well..maybe i think too much..


but anyway..i would leave it aside as well..

I admire the study environment in Bristol uni. If there is anything that I could help, please let me know, though I have so much to learn too.

Marsbar于2006-11-28写道:



I admire the study environment in Bristol uni. If there is anything that I could help, please let me know, though I have so much to learn too.



take my exam for me, i pay for you travel fee for bristol
:cn08:

Marsbar于2006-11-28写道:



that’s quite impressive that you did so much self studies on your own.



jealous..im so lack of self-control..ai~

and u guys all living in campus? i rent a room frm a family, but not host family, so i live off campus + can hardly invide ppl to ma place..

isolated!!

and i work 3 nights of a week..so dun hv time to hang out wif frdz... :cn05:

Marsbar于2006-11-28写道:



I admire the study environment in Bristol uni. If there is anything that I could help, please let me know, though I have so much to learn too.



i nearly went to bristol after college... :cn14:

Light, you need to be more confident about yourself. I really don’t think I could do better in the exam than you. You are a very talented youth.

I have never been to England, no wonder I am so rubbish. My regret for life.

be_my_girl于2006-11-28写道:



lightningraider于2006-11-28写道:





in that case expand your cirlce of life so you find more people who may be single so have time to spend with you or find a bf thru the expansion of your circle, it would require effort.




i dunno how…seriously…im too serious abt all ma frdz now, and i dunno how 2 seek for new ones…



bf? na… i am so afraid of messing up a relationship…and i can’t imagine being wif somebody…



well…maybe i think too much…





but anyway…i would leave it aside as well…


treat your friends well and royally but dont be too serious, friends are forever but for example, you change a place, you are in a new environment, you have to make new friends,
are you treating your friends seriously coz you rely on them so much? ie for not wanting be lonely etc.. dont, dont rely on others, make effort yourself, no one is as reliable as you,
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lightningraider于2006-11-28写道:



treat your friends well and royally but dont be too serious, friends are forever but for example, you change a place, you are in a new environment, you have to make new friends,

are you treating your friends seriously coz you rely on them so much? ie for not wanting be lonely etc… dont, dont rely on others, make effort yourself, no one is as reliable as you



yeh..maybe u r rite..dat a gud angle 2 think abt dat..
but for a lot of time, i just wanna be a gud person..
dunno..maybe i do rely on them too much.. :-(

Marsbar于2006-11-28写道:



I have never been to England, no wonder I am so rubbish. My regret for life.



so where r u?

be_my_girl于2006-11-28写道:



lightningraider于2006-11-28写道:



treat your friends well and royally but dont be too serious, friends are forever but for example, you change a place, you are in a new environment, you have to make new friends,

are you treating your friends seriously coz you rely on them so much? ie for not wanting be lonely etc… dont, dont rely on others, make effort yourself, no one is as reliable as you




yeh…maybe u r rite…dat a gud angle 2 think abt dat…

but for a lot of time, i just wanna be a gud person…

dunno…maybe i do rely on them too much… :frowning:


good person can be achieved in more than 10 ways

lightningraider于2006-11-28写道:





good person can be achieved in more than 10 ways



but only way for me seems to be ' be gud 2 the others'.. cos i ain't gud at anything...

I am sure you can do better than that. Being nice to others is a good start but not the end.

be good at others but not too good, make sure the dividing line is clear, when u give too much and do not get what you want to get you become sad,

sorry but this world is quite cruel.

hey…many thx for u 2!!



thx for chatting wif me, and trying 2 help me out!!



yeh…life is cruel…but there still lives loads of nice ppl like u guys!! thx a lot

cheer up girl! if u keep thinking u r no good @ anything, then pretty soon u won’t b able 2 do anything well because ur confidence is so low… everyone wants 2 b acknowledged 4 the things they do, it’s not wrong 2 b like that! just don’t feel down when other ppl overlook ur effort… at the end of the day, u live 4 urself, not 4 how other ppl c u!!! :polite:



cheer up, if u start thinking positively, then i bet u’ll become more popular 2! because believe it or not, ppl can sense positive energy, and they wanna b around some1 who is happy, and confident about herself! :smiley:



best wishes… think of the good things in life, no matter how insignificant they may b!!! :polite: